communication???

If a man is willing to make the effort to communicate then he is a keeper...

Now there is a whole lot more to be said about communication. First and most importantly, never under any circumstances should you communicate via text regarding serious, important, or sensitive issues!  There are a zillion reasons but mostly miscommunication, misunderstanding, and misinterpretation which can spiral and escalate out of control!

Definitely a relationship breaker...however there are exceptions as always.  A few men do better but usually they will be the ones that will never be good at communication that is best ...face to face and that is what you will want from a keeper!

a call in the morning

To receive a call or text first thing in the morning is grand!  To have evidence that he thinks of you at the start of the day is really nice.
This type of behavior if consistent with other kind demonstrations of connection and genuine respect will result in him being worthy of all your efforts to please him as well!

Compliments

Giving compliments is not easy for some people.  Usually the people who cannot compliment others have issues with their own self esteem, are negative people, can't be happy for others, or just cannot recognize beauty of compliments or opportunity to make someone they care about happy. 

If a man is comfortable with himself and his involvement with you that he can continuously provide you with compliments then he is definitely worthy of your efforts. 

Naturally we would hope he is genuine and hat he is not going around feeding compliments to every woman he knows or meets....hahaha

but over time you will be able to learn if he is truly a sweet, appreciative man who understand the value of taking the time and making the effort to say nice positive things and loves to make you feel beautiful and otherwise good about yourself!

Free of drugs

Free of drugs...mmm???
if a man is able and committed to being healthy that would make him worthy of your efforts. 

this sounds like a given and obviously woman would want their man to be free of drug use, but this gets complicated because how do we define drug free or drug use and does that include social drugs or alcohol ...the acceptable drug?

Well I guess that the idea is to be able to assess how negatively the drug use affects his health, productivity, emotional stability, financial stability, etc...

It is a beautiful virtue to want to help someone who wants to help themselves but be careful not to over invest!

There is a lot to learn about use and abuse of any substance and that is where woman can start with figuring out if a man is worth their time, effforts, energy, and love!

As we know this is no dress rehearsal and every second we spend on a man who isn't worhty it is seconds we can never spend again doing anything for ourselves or ever spend loving someone who deserves your love!  He is out there!

 In recognition to Allie and all her challenges with her man. Thanks for you thoughts!

showing affection

Everyone is unique and showing affection is a complex topic, however, affection is an important experience in life for all human beings.

There are a vast array of means for one human being to show affection for another.

Some individuals have intimacy issues or self esteem issues which affect their comfort level with affection.

Affection and displays of affection are important topics to discuss in a relationship.

Those who are immediately in sync regarding affection are lucky. It is one area that can make or break a relationship.

Communication is key to understanding and with understanding all issues can be resolved with common goals to be happy.

If a man is worthy of your love, he will discuss, and want to do what is necessary to be sure both of you are content and satisfied regarding affection and displays of affection in your relationship!

When you meet a man?

If a man is interested in you he will get your information and contact you! Done! If he doesn't ...move on.